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Raise your hand if you've ever felt like you're constantly chasing someone else's definition of success. (Don't worry, I'm raising mine too.)
Whether it's societal expectations, family pressure, or our own inner critic, it seems like we're constantly bombarded with messages about who we should be and what we should achieve.
That nagging feeling that you should be doing more, earning more, or simply being more can be absolutely exhausting.
I've spent countless nights lying awake, my mind racing with a never-ending to-do list of "shoulds."
I remember one time, I was scrolling through Instagram and saw a post about a woman who had launched a multi-million dollar business before the age of 30.
I immediately felt a pang of inadequacy, thinking,
'What am I even doing with my life?'
Sound familiar?
If so, you're not alone.
This relentless pursuit of an elusive ideal can leave us feeling drained, unfulfilled, and disconnected from our true selves.
But then I realized something important:
Comparing myself to others was only making me miserable, and more importantly, that "should" monster whispering in my ear was lying.
But don't worry, darling. Just because you're facing this problem doesn't mean you're doomed.
In fact, it's an opportunity for growth and transformation.
Now, I know what you're thinking: Easier said than frickin’ done, Karthik.
Trust me, I get it. Silencing that inner critic is like trying to tame a dragon – it takes time, effort, and a whole lot of fire.
If you're feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, or even a little bit defeated right now, that's okay.
It's normal to feel resistance when we're trying to change deeply ingrained patterns.
But remember, you're not alone in this battle.
Countless entrepreneurs have faced the same struggles and emerged stronger on the other side.
And with the right tools and strategies, you can too.
I promised you three actionable tips to help you break free from the "should" monster, and I’m a man of my word.
So, are you ready to finally silence that "should" monster and reclaim your power?
Are you ready to stop living someone else's dream and start creating a life that's truly yours?
If you answered yes, then buckle up, buttercup, because things are about to get interesting...
Before we dive into those dragon-slaying tips, I want you to take a moment and reflect:
What's one area of your life where the "should" monster is holding you back?
Is it your career, your health, your relationships, or something else entirely? Share below if you wanna.
By sharing your struggles, you'll not only gain clarity but also connect with other amazing women who are on the same journey.
Remember, vulnerability is a superpower, and we're in this together!
Alright, queens, now that we've faced our "should" monsters head-on, let's talk about how to slay them.
I'll be honest.
I promised myself I'd get this post out to you yesterday, but life got in the way.
So, as a peace offering (and a little extra motivation for myself), I'm giving you not three, but FIVE actionable tips to help you break free from the "should" monster and start living a life that's authentically yours:
#1 Unleash Your Inner Dragon.
Channel your inner Daenerys Targaryen and question every "should" that comes your way.
Who said you should be married by 30?
Who decided that a corner office is the only measure of success?
Ask yourself:
Who told me I should do this?
Why do I believe it?
Is this truly what I want?
Don't let societal expectations or outdated beliefs dictate your path.
You are the ruler of your own kingdom, and it's time to reclaim your power.
#2 Listen to Your Gut (It's Smarter Than You Think)
That nagging feeling in your gut? It's not indigestion, it's your intuition trying to guide you.
As a seasoned entrepreneur, you know how to trust your instincts in business. It's time to apply that same wisdom to your personal life.
Learn to tune out the noise and listen to that inner voice.
It may lead you down an unconventional path, but it's a path that's authentically yours.
Remember, the "should" monster thrives on self-doubt and insecurity. So, the next time it rears its ugly head, don't let it take the reins. Instead…
#3 Write Your Own Damn Story
You're not a supporting character in someone else's narrative.
You're the protagonist of your own epic tale.
Ditch the outdated script that others have written for you and start crafting a new one that reflects your true desires and aspirations.
Your story is yours to create, so make it a bestseller.
#4 Embrace Imperfection (Because Nobody's Perfect, Darling)
Perfection is a fucking myth.
A mirage that keeps us chasing an unattainable ideal.
It's time to embrace your flaws, your quirks, and your unique journey.
Remember, even the most powerful dragons have scales that aren't perfectly aligned.
You are not your mistakes.
You are not your setbacks.
You are a complex, multifaceted human being, and that's what makes you beautiful.
Now, this final tip might seem counterintuitive, but trust me on this one…
#5 Invest in Yourself (Cuz You're Worth It).
You are your most valuable asset.
Invest in your personal and professional development like you would invest in a promising startup.
Take courses, attend workshops, hire a coach – whatever it takes to unleash your full potential.
You're not just a businesswoman, you're a force of nature.
And when you invest in yourself, you're not just growing your business, you're growing your empire.
If you're ready to ditch the "shoulds" for good and create a life that truly lights you up, I'm here to help. Join the chat to connect.
So go forth, queens, and slay those "shoulds." Unleash your inner dragon, write your own story, and embrace your perfectly imperfect self.
You deserve a life that's fulfilling, authentic, and unapologetically yours. You got this!
Rooting for you from afar.
Karthik R